Splendid Mayhem: In Need Of Input!

Welcome To Holland

I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this......
When you're going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip - to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.
After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland."
"Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."
But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.
The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.
So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.
It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around.... and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills....and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.
But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy... and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."
And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever go away... because the loss of that dream is a very very significant loss.
But... if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things ... about Holland.

Monday, June 2, 2008

In Need Of Input!

Help Me Out, Puh-Leezzzz :)

When I worked at the college before I was working on a web-page.
Here's a brief run down- I recieved my level one CRLA tutoring certificate when I was working before. In order to receive each level you must complete a certain # of hours of training, tutoring, and we also have these questions to answer- kinda like what would you do type things- To get to each higher level they add something else you must do. Like 15 hours of training and 30 hours of tutoring, certain # of the questions, and do a project. (I am not exactly 100% sure on the hours mentioned above) I had completed all of the above minus my project- my "science help" website.

So, where I WANT and NEED your Input----- Help me come up with a NAME!! Science Help Website sounds gay. The courses included now are Chemistry, Biology, and Anatomy & physiology- as I take more and more science courses, I will add pages to my site.

When I publish the site- I'll post the link :) DON'T FORGET TO POST YOUR INPUT!!!!!!