Splendid Mayhem: Books

Welcome To Holland

I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this......
When you're going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip - to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.
After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland."
"Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."
But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.
The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.
So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.
It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around.... and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills....and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.
But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy... and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."
And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever go away... because the loss of that dream is a very very significant loss.
But... if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things ... about Holland.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Books

Suze- I mailed you Vanishing Acts yesterday.
Melissa- Which one did you want?
Melinda- How about you?
Kiera- You want any of them?
Anybody else? I'd like to get them off my dresser by the end of the week. Let me know if you want any of the books- if nobody claims them, I'm donating to Salvation Army :)

3 comments:

KieraApril 16, 2008 at 11:28 PM
Hi Jess - If you still have Keeping Faith - Jodi Picoult I would love to read that one. I am SO far behind on reading right now, it might be a while.

I will check out what I have that I could send down. I do know that I have a bunch of the Left Behind series if you would like me to figure out which ones I have. I also think I have some mindless Harliquins
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AnonymousApril 17, 2008 at 12:55 PM
I'll take the other Jodi Picoult one, Jess! I also have the JP one you sent me....I *think* you said Suze wanted to read it next...you can e-mail me her address & I can send it out to her (if that's ok with you, Suze!!)
Oooooh, or the "CUT" one.....sounds interesting!!
THANKS, JESS!!! :)
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ellen :)April 20, 2008 at 4:05 PM
Jess, I have wanting to read Belly Laughs...I heard it was very funny! Do you read funny contemporary romances?? I just finished one, it was VERY funny..I could mail it to you if you like...
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